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The Highest Level of love = willing to let go ~

Monday, March 9, 2009


Ya... Another Stupid Long Entry i wrote for my Stupid Engineering & Society Subject !
Still poor english argh !

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Only for MMU students though..



Once upon a time, there was a pair of husband and wife. One day, they felt their love no longer exist. They decided to divorce. Every procedures went on perfectly and smoothly. The only problem left was who was going to bear the responsibility to bear the child. Both of them intended to take care of their child themselves and always quarrel and fight for it. This makes the child felt so unsecure.


One day, this pair of husband and wife quarrel about the custody of the child again. Each of them held one hand of their child and makes the child very troubled. Some passers-by saw this scene. They held some different opinions too.


Some thought that the side who loved the child should just let go so that the child would not be hurt. Another side thought that if the wife knew that his husband could not provide a good environment for their child to grow up, she should fight for the custody of the child till the last so that she could let the child grow up nicely under her care.


As a result , a problem of a broken family evolved into a total chaos. All sides held their own stands and opinions and had no intention to give up. At last, all people put aside their proper matters, forgot to work , forgot to cook , forgot they were boiling water in the kitchen , forgot to do many important things which awaited them to complete.


Meanwhile, the divorced husband and wife brought the family problem to the court and let the judge to decide who to have the custody of the child.


In fact, in this case all people did not consider the feelings of the child, not even bother or respect the right of the child to choose. Did the father ask what was the decision of the child before? Did the mother knows what was running on her child’s mind ?



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Let us change the scene to our Perak state’s politics chaos. This big politic joke still carry on each day and this is surely an interesting story to be written down in our Malaysia history page.


The real cause of this epic Perak’s politics also is someone or some side do not know how to respect the decision of their people. Those two sides are just like the divorced parents, and our people are just like the pitiful child.


Side A said : “ We have more people , so I am the legal owner. “

Side B said : “ We are voted by our children , eventually I should be the legal owner. “

Children said : “ Please do not argue, let the vote on our hands decide the rightful owner ! which side got our support which side is the legal owner “


Side B heard it. They agreed on what children said and respect their children’s decision.


However, side A still remains the same. They never bother what their children want and what their children are thinking about. They just want to have the custody of the children.

Till this moment , which side is the side who really cares and love their children ?


Since side B willing to let go and let the children to make their own decision why till now side A still unwilling to let go? There is one phrase stated that “ The highest level of love is when you willing to let go“


One day side A do not willing to let go, I guess there will be no peaceful moment for Perak ; once side A willing to let go, maybe everyone finally can see a beautiful rainbow after the rain ?









11 comments:

Anonymous said...

walao yi-ge blogging at 5am isn't really healthy lol! But anyway the child analogy is a bit inappropriate, since a child is not recognised at law to be able to make a choice haha. But yea I get what you mean with Perak, it's really fun to see what's going on there hehe.

Vincent said...

haha.. simply write no care so much..


By the way now the time here is 7.21am to be exact hahahahaha :P


Good morning ~ Bonjour ?

Anonymous said...

heh? oh yea yea 7 already hehe, don't know why thinks it's 5 lol.

lol for me it's good night lo, and why use French??????I'm not soon lee lol.

Vincent said...

haha. Gam Gam morning can use ma so ma use french lo :P


Actually for me is good night too. Coz i haven't sleep and later 11am got meeting =.=|| hahaha

Anonymous said...

walao you damn geng wei,can tahan. if i don't sleep later in class sure pancing ikan hehe.

eh your msn how come always away one, put available sometimes ma haha, otherwise want to send message also think no reply hehe

Vincent said...

lol ~

coz i always away ma lol..


want send message just send. If i around i sure will reply you hahaha.


Or i will get back to you once i reach home ^^

~无名小扬~ said...

wow... nice story... hahaha
both side of perak party should let go their hand and let the ppl decide their own... hahahaha

Anonymous said...

hey yi ge, i know there are quite a number of SSI student studying in MMU.. can u be kind enough to list them down? :)

Vincent said...

@tze yang : lol. That's true


@juan : Free u nudge my msn i will send you if i am not away.

Anonymous said...

wei juan always bully me..
not sayang me o..
find Jeffrey bully him..

Vincent said...

haha jeff will eventually kill him maybe LOL~

^^


Wish u two sweet sweet always ~ ^^